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  • On the day of Saint Valentine…

    I rarely celebrate the 14th February debacle. You ask why? Well I am going to play an old track and say that it is just an overrated day. Come on, you have 365 days to express your emotions. That one day isn’t going to change much. Can I let you in on a little secret? When it reaches that fateful day I usually check the box marked single; that sounds more subtle than the unnecessary details.

    So on that day I choose to go ‘wild’ with my girlfriends. I pretend that every single couple walking past me is not having as much fun as I am.

    Somebody in their right – or crazy – senses asked me to be their valentine; and yes, I pretended I was very cool about it. Then when I got to thinking all the details that entail that day, I thought why can’t we reschedule and have it some other day. That is how weird I am. But he did not expect all the flowers, poems and whatever gifts people exchange. He just wanted to hang out.

    We took a walk and talked about all the stupid and sentimental things in life. We sang love songs. I did most of the singing but he didn’t run away so I should probably start working on my album.

    Then the night came. Everyone has a bucket list. I have not done half the things in mine but I am going to tread slowly. I swore that I have to be serenaded before I bid this world adieu and now that is one check for my very long bucket list. I pray in my heart of hearts that someone somewhere is getting jealous by now because that has been my intention all along.

    The song, let us call it that for now only because it gives it a more dramatic appeal, is now one of my favorite things to listen to, I feel like I own it now. The day ended with one yellow rose, I hear it means friendship, that’s what I gained that day. See how a day that the whole world assumes is set apart for lovers took a twisted,but happy, turn in my imperfect life? That is the story of my funny valentine; one of those pieces that are needed to complete the puzzle that is me.

  • Umaskini tuuangamize au tuupunguze

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    PHOTO COURTESY: ARON MTURI

    Ni wangapi wamekuwa wakipoteza wapendwa wao kila mwaka kwa majanga yasiyoeleweka? Tume­kuwa tukijaribu juu chini kutafuta suluhisho, huku tukiambiwa kuwa kuna madaktari ambao hukesha wakitafuta dawa za kati ya magonjwa makuu yanayoangamiza binadamu. Kufikia sasa, bado watu wanatamani kupata suluhisho la jinsi watakavyopata dawa za magonjwa sugu kama vile UKIMWI…lakini la kushangaza ni kuwa hata ugonjwa wa Malaria unaweza kuti­bika, lakini kila siku, takriban watoto ELFU TATU wanaangamia. Ninavyofikiria ni kuwa, tumekuwa watu wanaojishughulisha na mengi hadi tunasahau madogo ambayo tunaweza kuyaondoa kwa haraka.

    Katika Jamii, vijana wana mengi am­bayo wanaweza kuyafanya ili kushughulikia hili tatizo la umaskini, lakini tuseme ukweli, TUMEZEMBEA! Nilifurahishwa sana na jumbe niliyoipata kutoka kwa vijana kadhaa wa chuo kikuu cha Daystar ambayo ilikuwa hivi, “Tumekualika katika mkutano wa vijana, am­bapo tutakuwa tukiongea kuhusu jinsi sisi kama vijana tunaweza kuangamiza umaskini.”

    Singetaka kukuelezeeni jinsi nilivyofika mkutanoni…nilifika mapema, na si uongo, nilitabasamu tangu hadi mwisho. Mkutano wenyewe uliongozwa na Bwana mmoja, Dan Orero, kwa kusema kuwa angependa kila mtu atoe maoni yake. Kivumbi kikaanza! Kwanza, Bwana mmoja aliamka na kusema kuwa kul­ingana na utafiti wa wataalam, imesemekana kuwa si rahisi KUUANGAMIZA umaskini. Tunaloweza kufanya ni KUUPUNGUZA… Kimya! Orero naye hakusema kitu, aliandika tu.

    Zaidi ya hayo, aliuliza kama tunapaswa kui­lalamikia serikali kuhusu kiwango cha juhudi za kuupunguza umaskini. Hili lilimfanya Bwana mmoja kusema kuwa hatupaswi kuitupia seri­kali lawama, kwani haiwezi kufanya kazi bila kushirikiana na wananchi. Kisha, mwengine aliongeza kuwa tunazo rasilimali za kutosha na pia uwezo chungu nzima, ambao tumekuwa tukiupata tangu shule ya msingi, na kuna njia ambazo tunaweza kuzitumia ili kuupunguza umaskini katika jamii.

    Karen, mmoja kati ya wengi waliokuwepo alisema kuwa wazazi wana jukumu kubwa sana katika kuhakikisha kuwa watoto wao watakuwa katika mstari wa mbele katika vita vya kupun­guza umaskini. Ili wazo hili lilete maana, Wa­zazi wana jukumu la kuwaunga mkono watoto wao katika lolote wanalotaka kufanya maisha­ni. Aliongeza kuwa watu wengi wamepata sha­hada, na wamekaa miaka kadhaa bila kazi kwa­sababu walichokifanya chuo kikuu hakiendani kamwe, na kilichokuwepo myoyoni mwao.

    Hakuna aliyenifurahisha kama bwana mmoja, Gordon Odhiambo, aliyeongea kwa lugha ya kiingereza, “let us not come to school to GET JOBS, but to GIVE BACK TO THE COMMUNITY.” Ijapokuwa mimi si gwiji wa lugha ya kiingereza, nilimwelewa na kupasua kicheko. Watu walinishangaa kwa kudhani kuwa alikuwa ameongea upuzi mtupu, bali nilicheka kwani alikuwa ameigonga akili yan­gu kwa maneno ya busara ambayo nilikuwa nimeyatamani kwa muda mrefu.

    Singependa kukueleza mengi, natumai umenielewa, lakini nitakuacha na swali amba­lo wengi wamekuwa wakijiuliza. Je, unafikiri kuwa umaskini unaweza kuangamizwa kabisa, au kupunguzwa tu?

    By: Aron Mturi

    (aronmmtunji@daystar.ac.ke)

  • How Responsible Are You?

    So we’re traveling to Nairobi—yes people, the drive from Athi to Valley Road is travelling – and the “learned” guy seated in front of me opens the window and gingerly lets loose an empty pet can of soda. I’m not perfect, far from it, but littering just gets to me. Not just because of the environmental effect but majorly the sheer impenitence lacing the perpetrator’s demeanor.

    Before you brand me a self-righteous critic, imagine a man or woman old enough to be your father or mother having to clean up after your grown-up brazen self. Whilst you may rebut my seemingly whimsical protest with the inane phrase, “but it’s their job,someone has to clean”, I could borrow words from my lecturer Mrs. Muthami saying “this is your world and there’s a limit to the abuse it can take, before it starts to cave via global warming and the calamities that come with it”. No she didn’t stop there but added, “…then you start blaming God when it’s we who have failed to take care of what God gave us custody of…”

    I won’t pull the environmental card, Wangari Maathai sung that song. Instead I’ll play the morality card. How responsible are you? My pastor says “responsibility (or lack of it) starts from our bedrooms, when we wake up in the morning” (an unspiritual statement if you ask me). It starts with us, because if we would be audacious enough to stick gum under a pew, fart in an elevator, pull more toilet paper than we require, leave taps dripping, heaters and lights on unnecessarily, double parking, overlapping, speeding in residential areas, being unnecessarily loud, smugly queuing on the express counter pushing a trolley full of shopping, and suggestively gawking at someone’s wife or husband in their presence amongst other pet peeves then we have a long way to go.

    Are we then incorrigible? Far from it, there’s hope for us yet. Gandhi said we are the change we want to see. If you want to have a responsible government and society, then be responsible yourself. Go on, turn the tap completely off, be considerate and use only what you require, for Pete’s sake do the right thing. It’ll take you 21 days to kick the old habits but before long the world around us will smile back.

    By Asutsa Govedi

    (rockyagovedi@daystar.ac.ke)

  • Hello world!

    Hallo Reader,

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